Married women: By happenstance or pure intention did you marry someone like your father?

So, I asked this question a while back and some sicko didn't know how to read between the lines. WHAT I MEAN BY THIS QUESTION IS: Do you feel that women and men are drawn to partners who are like their parents? Is this subconscious? Anyone know what Freud thinks on this matter. I hope I have made myself clear to the folks that can't step out of their own convoluted minds. I am sorry for you and most likely someone put a curse on you.